Thursday, July 21, 2011
True Life Romance
That was in fourth grade and by fifth grade Dave must have thought Cindy was pretty cute, too, because he asked her out on a date. "He was the first boy to ever ask me out," Cindy said.
"You went out on a date in fifth grade?" I asked.
Cindy laughed. "No. The teacher found out and told our parents who put the kabosh on it."
Even though her mother didn't let the date happen, she must have thought it was special because she wrote in her journal, "Asked out on her first date by Dave." Cindy didn't know that until much later when she got her mother's journal after her mother died.
Cindy never dated Dave in high school, but he dated her best friend they were part of a large group of young people who bonded and formed a social circle that stayed close through the years and the miles that eventually separated them. Cindy married someone else and lived in the Chicago area where she taught school and raised her family. Dave was in Springfield, Illinois. They reconnected later and the couples became good friends and socialized for a number of years. There was no romantic stuff going on but later Dave said that he thought her first husband thought he had feelings for her. She asked him how her husband could suspect something when nothing was happening, and Dave said, "A man knows when another man has the hots for his wife."
Cindy laughed again in the telling of the story. "I never knew. Dave was respectful enough of my marriage never to make his feelings known."
Eventually both Dave and Cindy became victims of divorce. "I say victims because neither of us wanted it, but our partners decided the marriages were over."
Cindy and Dave stayed in touch as friends and were planning a get together for the old gang. The reunion was set for some time in June, but about mid-April Dave told her he didn't want to wait until June to see her. He had come up to Illinois to help plan the reunion, and he told her he didn't want to wait until June to see her again. "He stayed the weekend and my daughter had planned a big dinner so friends and family could meet him." Cindy said. "I woke up the next morning to find him on my computer. I asked him what he was doing and he said he was making plane reservations to come back again."
He did go back two weeks later. They were sitting at the breakfast bar in her house and he said, "What do you think? Would you be willing to give it a go again?"
"Yeah I think I would."
Dave went in to call his mother and asked, "Mom am I old enough now to date her?"
I love stories of new-found love. That's what my novel, Play it Again, Sam is about, and it was inspired by a true story that another friend shared with me.
What about you? Do you know a story about a new-found love? I'd love to hear about it.